
Say LOVE
Grace Towers Presents
SayLove SF on Valentine's weekend
**********************************************************************
Hola Amores, we are back with our first SayLove of 2023! We're excited to explore, celebrate and enjoy one another. Let us not take these moments for granted. It's all fleeting, darling. Feel you soon!
********************************************************************
YOUR HEALTH IS OUR HEALTH
As responsible members of this beautiful community it is important for each of us to be accountable for our own and collective health.
This includes the regular STI testing/check ups and HIV prevention via Treatment as Prevention, PrEP, PEP, using CONDOMS and other safer sex practices.
Secondly, we are still HIGHLY encouraging folks to be VAXXED for MPox.
STI TESTING RESOURCES : STI / HIV : Strut, 470 Castro Street, is offering limited clinical services . Please call the clinic at 415-581-1600 for instructions.
COVID PROTOCOLS : Our collective safety is of utmost importance. We have continued to uphold every strategy in our toolkit to mitigate the spread of Covid-19 and you're all doing great! WE CONTINUE TO HIGHLY ENCOURAGE YOU TO GET VAXXXED AND BOOSTED! If you are feeling ANY symptoms please stay home.
********************************************************************
********************************************************************
SayLove DETAILS
Whether you're into a sweet cuddle session, a hot scene, dancing the day away and/or some sweaty love. SayLove is a privately hosted party that curates a space for socializing, dancing, consensual play, intimacy and good vibes.
Say Love is a 21+ event hosted in a beautiful and spacious co-op / private home in the heart of the San Francisco's SoMa district. At SayLove you will find:
-Nude Figure drawing workshop. (All supplies provided)
-Dance Floor
-Play spaces
-Performances
-Clothes Check (Cash only)
-Refreshments (Cash only)
-Smoking patio
-Shower
-Light Snacks
-Condoms and Safer play supplies
*******************
TICKETS MUST BE PURCHASED IN ADVANCE
REFUNDS MUST BE SUBMITTED 24 HOURS PRIOR TO EVENT TO BE CONSIDERED.
No guest list for anyone without tickets.
*******************
Please note:
> NO ENTRY past MIDNIGHT.
> Again, NO ENTRY past MIDNIGHT. Plan accordingly.
> No ticket sales at the door.
> TICKETS SALES WILL CLOSE at 8PM day prior to event (FRIDAY, February 10th).
> Address will be sent to everyone who purchased a ticket at 8:30PM day prior to the event (FRIDAY, February 10th). Be sure to check your spam folder!
>This event is PRIVATE.
> NO ins & outs.
>We reserve the right to refuse entry to anyone.
>Please respect the space. This is a private home.
>When leaving please be quiet and walk across street/ around corner to wait for car.
>Say Love will start at 10PM and run until 2AM ;D
*******************
SayLove
LOVE what you do. Do what you LOVE.

WHOLE LOTTA LOVE
The most rockin' VDay Celebration this side of the Misty Mountains returns to the East Bay for another epic year!
We're celebrating Zepp and love with Burlesque, Aerial and Pole performances that will leave you Dazed & Confused and wanting more.
Gather your loves and get your tix quick, this show regularly sells out and we want to give you All Our Love!!!
Performer tipping welcome and appreciated.
**TICKETS**
~ VIP Table for 2 = $100
~ VIP Couch for up to 4 cozy people = $200
**VIP gets you up close & personal to the stage & with our performers!**
~ General Seating - $40
~ Standing Room - $25
**First come, first seated, so arrive on time!**
***This show is for 18+, GRAB THOSE TICKETS!***
Venue Info:
Flux Vertical Theatre
811 University Ave.
Berkeley, CA
Doors 8pm
Show 9pm
** PERFORMERS **
Mz. K
Leah Marie
Shannon Vau de Vire
Sydni Deveraux
Sade Symone
Bobby Barnaby
CeZar The Superstar
Luna Phaze
Eva D'Luscious
** We'd love to celebrate your special event at the show! Please email info(at)showgirltemple.com to make plans!
** FUNDRAISING RAFFLE **
We're pleased to once again raise funds to support The Sisters of Perpetual Indulgence, and their mission to promulgate universal joy and expiate stigmatic guilt.
https://www.thesisters.org/
** RAFFLE PRIZES **
* ShowGirl Temple -- Gift Certificate for Burlesque Lesson for the winner and a friend
*Flux Vertical Theatre -- Free Class at FVT Academy for the winner and a friend
**Additional prizes welcome - email eva(at)showgirltemple.com.
** SHOW INFO **
Whole Lotta Love has been produced since 2011 by Eva D’Luscious, ShowGirl Temple Founder & High Priestess of Tease, in homage to her favorite band and to all who have loved, lost and are determined to love again.
We're thrilled to once again partner with our sisters in rock at Flux Vertical Theatre.
We celebrate sensuality and joy through Burlesque and Variety Arts. We ask you to respect performers and fellow patrons. Any behavior toward performers, patrons or staff that is perceived as disrespectful or threatening will be grounds for immediate removal and a permanent ban from all ShowGirl Temple shows.
No photos or video allowed during stage show.
https://showgirltemple.com/
***ALL SALES ARE FINAL***
You, the purchaser, agree and understand that all sales are final and no refunds will be given. Thanks for your support!
ADA Accessibility - Flux Vertical Theatre is 100% ADA accessible

Silk N Steel
Silk & Steel is the non-competitive immersive dance pre-show to Haute Velour! Performances will explore the provocative nature of the Erotic in a highly voyeuristic setting. Featuring Doris Arnold, Carmine Black, Maddie Frechette, Josiah Grant, Krystal Jacksin, CeZar Lopez, Michelle Mynx and Milani Simone

Nude Noir (Night 2)
Ten of London's most sensuous performers will be joined by the Bay Area's own superstars of slink and kink to create a night that will haunt your fantasies. Prepare to be uplifted, titillated, thrilled and coaxed gently to the very edges of delight, in this multi-sensory event experience.
Nude Noir is a black tie masquerade and one-of-a-kind immersive performance/art installation exploring the themes of eroticism, seduction, and sensuality.
Two nights only, just 200 tickets per night. This event is sure to sell out, so join the wait list now to secure your place in line. Ticket prices start at $275 per person, including premium open bar, sumptuous desserts, DJs and dancing into the wee hours ... and a feast for the senses.

How Weird Street Faire 2022
23rd Annual How Weird Street Faire 2022
The longest-running EDM festival on the West Coast returns!
“Close Encounters Of The Weird Kind”
Saturday, October 15, 2022
Noon to 8 p.m.
Centered at Howard and 2nd Streets, San Francisco, Earth

Nude Noir
Ten of London's most sensuous performers will be joined by the Bay Area's own superstars of slink and kink to create a night that will haunt your fantasies. Prepare to be uplifted, titillated, thrilled and coaxed gently to the very edges of delight, in this multi-sensory event experience.
Nude Noir is a black tie masquerade and one-of-a-kind immersive performance/art installation exploring the themes of eroticism, seduction, and sensuality.
Two nights only, just 200 tickets per night. This event is sure to sell out, so join the wait list now to secure your place in line. Ticket prices start at $275 per person, including premium open bar, sumptuous desserts, DJs and dancing into the wee hours ... and a feast for the senses.

Metamorphosis - Twisted Windows
We are delighted to be back at SOMArts on Saturday, September 24th for an extravagant Folsom Gala featuring exquisitely erotic, sensually subversive, and particularly perilous queer performance art, including aerial acrobatics, suspension bondage, pole dance, and fetish acts, as well as interactive and display art & other participatory marvels. This year our Folsom event explores metamorphosis – “a change of the form or nature of a thing or person into a completely different one, by natural or supernatural means.” As always, proceeds go to compensate performers/staff and to support the arts venue, in this case the SOMArts Cultural Center.

Down & Dirty - Flux Vertical Theatre
Get "Down & Dirty" with the Bay Area's premiere pole-dance company, Flux Vertical Theatre, and thrill to the skills of these stunning performers, as they bring dance, gymnastics, theater and circus-arts to our swanky, second-story clubhouse!
Monday Night Hubba is the perfect way to start your week sexy: with cocktails, tease, comedy and a more intimate experience than Hubba's big monthly extravaganzas! Each Monday night is a fun-filled, shimmering showcase of local, national and international burlesque and variety talent -- and a chance to see the most dazzling debuts before they hit it big!


LUST
This year at SF PRIDE, Love will Keep us together but LUST will keep the party going!
Host: Arisce Wanzer
DJs: DJ Kidd, Star Ah-Mer-Ah-Su (DJ Set), Dreams, DJ China G
Performances: Frankie Fictitious, Calypso, Vander Von Odd
Pole Dancers: Chanel, Ethical Drvgs, Kori & Cezar
Gogo Dancers: Andy, Yanni, Jasmine Spice, Celine, Nikita, Kelz, Kénta, Kaydence & Kingsley
Photos by: Giotographer
Videos by: Kane C. Andrade
This is a space that centers queer and trans folks and our mission is to cultivate a space that is as safe as possible. Consent is MANDATORY. Some consent practices include, but are not limited to, asking permission before taking photos or touching gogos and other patrons. Any form of bigotry will not be tolerated.
If you cannot practice this, you will be asked to leave immediately. Our security and staff are here to support you. If you or anyone else feel uncomfortable for ANY reason, please inform us and we will assist you. If you see something, say something.
Accessibility: Accessible entrance available upon request, plenty of seats

Afterglow (Comfort & Joy)
Afterglow 2022: Pink Saturday Blacklight Discotheque
Saturday, June 25, 2022 - 10:00pm to Sunday, June 26, 2022 - 6:00am
Space 550
550 Barneveld Avenue
San Francisco, CA 94124
United States
Comfort & Joy is beyond excited to finally bring you the 16th evolution of our legendary blacklight discotheque: Afterglow 2022!
Grab your dayglo, come play with us and play on the dance floor all night long at SF Pride's premier Pink Saturday party. After a long three year hiatus, we can’t wait to welcome you back and create a special night of revelry and celebration for our beloved queer community.
* * * * * * *
On center stage at 1am our magnificent hosts Grace Towers and Larissa Archer will mesmerize you with Afterglow’s main show, featuring RuPaul’s Drag Race winner, fashion icon and boundary breaker Raja Gemini and a grand finale ensemble of dazzling community performers.
Also the fluorescent wonders of the Electric Spectrum LED Circus and pole-dancing powerhouses Aurora Rose and Cezar Lopez will be serving up sizzling ambience for your pleasure throughout the rest of the evening.
* * * * * * *
We’re excited to take you on an euphoric dancing journey from doors open to 6am, featuring fabulous DJs like David Harness, Sergio Ferdaz and more across four different spaces, including a new outside Silent Disco.
* * * * * * *
As always Comfort & Joy’s acclaimed empress of neon Chickpea (Brian Busta) and an amazing team of co-creating artists will be casting high witchery and fluorescent splendor, including Blitzy, Blue, Matt Picon, Steve Dudek, Mitcho, and more!
Our cuddle tent will also be back to hold space for more grounded interpersonal immediacy and caring touch, curated by the lovable Cobalt and with delightful tea service by the ever wondrous Carolina Sunshine.
And upstairs you can once again fall into a debaucherous dream of luscious delights.
* * * * * * *
>>SPECIAL NOTE ABOUT CONSENT & COMMUNICATION<<
Comfort & Joy is here for you! If you ever need support, see someone who may or have other concerns at our parties, please find one of our 'vibe-raters' (purple glow collars) or a house manager (pink glow collars).
We want everyone to always feel respected, adventurous and safe at our events. Consent makes that possible. Please communicate and check in before touching. If you aren’t feeling it, a polite ‘no thank you’ is kind. ‘No’ is also a complete sentence. If you receive ‘no’ in any form, please be gracious and respect it. Ultimately, we request that we ask each other for permission rather than forgiveness, when it comes to consent.
* * * * * * *
Dayglo/neon, glow realness and whatever the fuck makes you feel fabulous most highly encouraged
Facepainting magic by Audette Sophia, Nastassia Weit and Jeshka and more!
Roaming photography by the incredible Gio (@giotographer)
Photobooth by C&J’s wonderful resident photographer Danny Baby
And of course wave after wave of our special late-night fruity refreshments, courtesy of the bodacious Beonda and her crew
Full clothes check available; this is a clothing optional & affection encouraged event
Venue is 21+
* * * * * * *
IF YOUR FUNDS ARE TIGHT, THERE ARE LOTS OF OPPORTUNITIES TO VOLUNTEER AND HELP US CREATE THE MAGIC OF AFTERGLOW! It takes a big ol’ queer village to manifest all of this merry madness and every party volunteer gets a free ticket.
SIGN UP HERE:
https://comfortandjoy.ivolunteer.com/afterglow_2022
* * * * * * *
WAITLIST AND DOOR TICKETS
We will be limiting our waitlist to 100 people, and getting on the waitlist is not a guarantee a ticket will be released to you. It just means when the first three tiers are sold out, if/when a ticket is refunded, we will release to the waitlist in the order that folx have signed up
We will have 100 tickets available at the door for $100 each. Whether you sign up for the waitlist, getting to the venue early is your best chance to get a ticket.
* * * * * * *
Afterglow is a luxurious, one-of-a-kind San Francisco party thrown by Comfort & Joy, a 501(c)3 volunteer-run non-profit. Proceeds enable us to host more splendid parties, create our legendary village in the queerborhood at Burning Man, provide funding for community arts projects, and offer free or discounted events supporting queer community, creativity, and expression here in the bay area. We thank you for your support!





Say Love!
Amores! I miss YOU! We’re excited for the first SayLove of 2022! Join us on April 16th, EASTER SATURDAY 10p-2a. Feel you soon! * As the Covid-19 landscape continues to evolve, we will update our protocols to align with those in our communities and no longer require proof of vaccinations BUT CONTINUE TO HIGHLY ENCOURAGE YOU TO GET VAXXXED AND BOOSTED!
do what you LOVE // LOVE what you do
*This is a body positive/ clothing optional space. 21+ only.
My Birthday!
Turning 28! Send me birthday wishes or $$$ to @TK_Zilla - Venmo OR $Cezarthesuperstar - Cashpp

Vehement
Our depraved Duchess Mss Vee returns with her promiscuous royal court for an extreme visual dining experience resembling a fever dream.
Aristocratic high-fashion meets dark surrealism in our adults-only dinner show — indulge in dark, unconventional performances with celebrity talent while dining à la carte. World-famous DJ House of Malakai will elevate the night with music sets all night long.
Dress to impress the Duchess with your regal costume to participate in our runway contest. Be part of history as you walk alongside rare fashion pieces by Dark Garden Corsetry.
Ticket includes entry only, food/drinks will be billed separately. Partial proceeds of all tickets sold will be donated to the Transgender District of San Francisco.


HoliDAZE XXX - Flux Vertical Theatre
Flux Vertical Theatre is excited to celebrate the HoliDAZE with you the only way we know how ~ with some seXXXy time fun! Our 1st ever Holiday XXXtravaganza will be featuring more than just pole & we cannot wait! We have Pole, Chair, Burlesque, Floorwork & Lollipop all ready to deck the halls for you on December 12th!!!
💥💥THIS IS A 21+ EVENT💥💥
Get your seat tickets, please click on this event date then select the attached link.

Twisted Windows Winter Gala
Step into a kinky winter wonderland at an event that combines a scintillatingly sensual show with interactive marvels. This gala reception features exquisitely erotic, sensually subversive, and particularly provocative performance art, including suspension bondage, pole dance, burlesque, and kink-ified seasonal songs, as well as decorated selfie stations, interactive painting, winter-themed snacks, and other participatory activities. All proceeds go to compensate artists and to support the Folsom Street 501(c)3 non-profit arts and culture organization.
Tickets: Tickets are pre-sale only and will not be available at the door. We anticipate selling out well in advance, so don’t try to wait until the last minute to get yours! Ticket prices range from $25 to $69 and are available here:
Please click on this calendar date and select the link there.
Location: Folsom Street Community Center, 145 9th St Suite 105, San Francisco, CA 94103
Schedule: December 11th, 2021. Doors open at 7:30pm, event from 8pm – 10:30pm. Performer details coming soon!
Attire: Twisted Windows is an artistic fetish environment, and you are part of that environment. Wear what makes you feel amazing and seize this opportunity for your finery to be fully appreciated! Think blues and whites, formal attire, leather/lace/latex, ice royalty, or winter wonderland adjacent. No effort = no entry. Attendees are required to wear masks at all times, except when actively eating/drinking (we will provide some packaged snacks and single-serve non-alcoholic beverages).
Entry requirements: This event is 18+, ID required. All attendees will need to provide proof of vaccination at the door, no exceptions. Sufficient proof of vaccinated status is a state/federally issued vaccine card, a photograph of your card, or digital vaccine record from the State of California showing that you are two weeks past the complete vaccine course. Attendees must also complete a symptom screening and attestation at the door. All attendees must abide by our code of conduct.
December 11th is going to be an amazing day of kink events – before the Winter Gala, don’t miss the San Francisco Fetish Flea at Wicked Grounds (just a few blocks away), and the Art and Artisan Fair at the Folsom Street Community Center – all part of the Leather & LGBTQ Cultural District’s Santa Second Saturday!


LIL nas x v Lizzo - Flux Vertical Theatre - BOOTIE Mashup Party
Two of our favorite pop/rap artists, Lizzo and Lil Nas X, get the Bootie Mashup treatment, as we mash them up throughout the night with everyone and anyone. Pole dance troupe Flux Vertical Theatre presents tribute performances for the 11:11 Show, and DJ Cip spins all the other hip-hop we know you love in the Lounge.
Showcasing the best mashups in the world ever, Bootie Mashup has been throwing genre-fluid dance parties in San Francisco (and beyond) since 2003, shamelessly combining pop songs both throwback and current. With our fun, creative themes, our diverse team of pop pirates have won numerous nightlife awards in multiple cities for over 18 years.
18+ W/ ID
$20 BEFORE 10:30PM, $25 AFTER
$15 LIMITED ADVANCE TICKETS – CLICK BUTTON BELOW: